GERMANY:Despite their intense feelings, the novelist and actress never consummated their love, writes Kate Connolly in Berlin
A set of 30 unpublished letters and telegrams from the legendary American writer Ernest Hemingway to the German singer-actress Marlene Dietrich, which have been made public for the first time, reveal the depth of their passion for each other - although their relationship was never consummated.
Hemingway and Dietrich started writing to each other when he was 50 and she was 47, remaining in close contact until the writer's suicide in 1961. But they never consummated their love, because of what Hemingway referred to as "unsynchronised passion".
Although it was not a physical relationship, they certainly knew how to flirt. In a letter dated June 19th, 1950, at 4am, Hemingway wrote: "You are getting so beautiful they will have to make passport pictures of you nine feet tall." He continued with a question: "What do you really want to do for a life work? Break everybody's heart for a dime? You could always break mine for a nickel and I'd bring the nickel."
Another time he wrote: "I can't say how every time I ever put my arms around you I felt that I was home." He ends a letter: "I love you and I hold you tight and kiss you hard." In 1951 he wrote to her from the tropical heat of Cuba where he was trying to write The Old Man and the Sea. "It was too hot to make love, if you can imagine that, except under water and I was never very good at that."
The correspondence has now been released by the Kennedy Library in Boston on the instructions of Dietrich's daughter, Maria Riva, who wanted the letters to be kept under wraps for 15 years after her mother's death.
Tom Putnam, director of the Kennedy Library, said: "When combined with the library's collection of correspondence from Dietrich to Hemingway, these new letters help to complete the story of a remarkable friendship between two exceptional individuals."
The couple met in 1934 on a French luxury liner, the Ile de France, when Hemingway was returning to Key West via Paris after a safari in east Afric'a, and Dietrich was travelling back to Hollywood after visiting relatives in Nazi Germany on one of her last trips home.
Much later Hemingway revealed to a friend why he believed the relationship had never been consummated. "Victims of unsynchronised passion. Those times when I was out of love, the Kraut was deep in some romantic tribulation, and on those occasions when Dietrich was on the surface and swimming about with those marvellously seeking eyes, I was submerged."
There are now plans to put their correspondence into a book. In one of the letters, from 1951, she addressed him as "Beloved Papa", and continued: "I think it is high time to tell you that I think of you constantly. I read your letters over and over and speak of you with a few chosen men. I have moved your photograph to my bedroom and mostly look at it rather helplessly."
Their letters reveal the insecurities and fears of both, and frequently touch on Hemingway's lifelong fight against depression. "Toi and moi have lived through about as bad times as ever were," he wrote in June 1950. "I don't mean just wars. Wars are spinach. Life in general is the tough part."
Dietrich made no secret of her dislike of physical relationships. In that sense she might not have been a bad match for Hemingway, despite his womanising reputation. Referring to his fourth wife, Mary Welsh, in a 1950 letter, he wrote: "Mary is still the best woman in the bed that I have ever known. Of course I have not been around much and am basically shy."
Ernest Miller Hemingway was born in Illinois in 1899 and became one of the most influential novelists of the 20th century. He was married four times and had a reputation as a heavy drinker and womaniser. He received the Pulitzer prize in 1953 for The Old Man and the Sea, and was awarded the Nobel prize for literature in 1954.
He suffered from depression and on July 2nd, 1961, shot himself in the head at his home in Ketchum, Idaho.
Marie Magdalene Dietrich was born in Berlin in 1901 and became an actress, entertainer and singer. She went to Hollywood rather than become a puppet of the Nazi regime, for which she was considered a traitor by her fellow Germans. Dietrich spent her last decade bedridden at her home in Paris, where she died in 1992. - ( Guardian service)