MARIE NICHOLSON,
Sir, - I have been fortunate to travel extensively over the past seven years, throughout the United States, the Virgin Islands, the Middle East, Europe and more recently Mexico City and its environs, and I have come to a few conclusions on the myth of the friendly Irish.
Why is it that in the States, or any other country for that matter, when you meet someone either socially or when shopping, the first contact is either "Hello" or "How are you?" And you will always be followed out of the shop by a "Have a good day".
In Ireland, the first response is generally one of "What do yah want?" or some other forced comment, or just a look which indicates that someone is not happy to have to serve or to talk to you.
I live in a small suburb of Dublin. One of our local coffee houses serves coffee, usually in a saucer, and if you deign to ask for a cappuccino at 4.59p.m. this is considered a mortal sin. If you happen to be a student you may be asked to leave, as your demeanour does not suit the ambience of the establishment.
I think we are living in a fool's paradise. The friendly Irish? I don't think so. I have met more friendly people in my travels over the past few years that in an entire lifetime spent in Ireland. So let's be honest here: the myth of the friendly Irish is just that. - Yours, etc.,
MARIE NICHOLSON, Bellevue Park, Greystones, Co Wicklow.