2011: K. calls at 7am to report on last night’s date. She’s been online with this guy for weeks and loving it, so it was time for the big meet. He looks even better in real life, she texts from the restaurant. They order wine. He places his phone on the table. Are you expecting a call? she asks. No, he smiles, but the phone stays right though dinner and she can’t stop looking at it. It felt like there was someone else at the table, she tells me. Like I didn’t have his full attention. And I could just feel desire ebbing away.
The power of that small act stayed with me for a long time: a machine intruding on a seduction moment. A device that sits like a mute third party - and detonates a relationship. Desire utterly extinguished. The evening ended and K. never saw him again. But her experience inspired me to start writing a story that I could trace back to childhood.
A novel is the answer to a question that grips you by the throat and will not let you go. The question that had troubled me for decades, through three novels, was posed by the Irish molecular biologist JD Bernal in 1924: “What is to be the future of feeling?” The Love Makers delivered my response, a philosophical thriller about the future of human love. The story of a chance encounter between Scarlett, a tech developer, and Gurl, a young woman who reveals dark secrets about her machine relationship; a story about female friendship, class, motherhood, and work, and how artificial intelligence and robotics are transforming the future of love, sex and desire.
It began in the Pembroke children’s library in Dublin. I have a vivid memory of sitting on the floor when I was 6 or 7, crying my eyes out over The Happy Prince, Oscar Wilde’s fable about the statue with a heart of lead who “was once alive and had a human heart”. A child’s fascination with the natural / artificial, the “bodies new and strange” that Ovid wrote about 2,000 years ago, that are key elements in our technological enchantment. This thread of natural/artificial resurfaced when I was an undergrad in Sweden and recruited onto a research project at IBM with computing and psychology. I met my first robot, a primitive machine by today’s standards, but there was the thrill of machines calmly taking care of business, futures rushing towards us.
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The evidence of our technological seduction is everywhere, from the family in a restaurant silently communing with their phones, to the child whose bedtime story is delivered by an iPad. Smart devices are embedded in our lives, shaping our behaviour and curating our relationships. Our anthropomorphic tendencies place us firmly in the grooming stages of a deepening enchantment - seduced, enthralled and dependent. I’d always thought of seduction in terms of romance and sex, until I discovered the Latin seducere: to lead away or persuade someone to abandon their duty. So, what happens if our attention is diverted away from a person? What’s the cost and consequence of this transfer of attention? Who might be missing out? Our future is a merging of human and machine, so what’s the impact on our relationships as parents, friends, lovers? Most importantly, what does our technological seduction reveal about ourselves?
What a thrill it was for The Love Makers to be invited to the Royal Institution for Science to explore The future of human love in the age of AI with a live theatre audience, chaired by Philip Ball. During the years of writing and research I’d realised that a novel alone would not suffice, the book required an arts -science dialogue. Consider this: when you watch movies about AI or robots, for example HER or Ex Machina, you might wonder what is technically accurate, what’s real, what’s desirable, and what are the engineering challenges? The Love Makers combines storytelling that dramatizes what’s at stake, with the voices of the scientists, engineers and scholars who lead the way in research. Thus, The book became a public engagement mission that aims to entertain, demystify, inform and provoke debate.
The Love Makers short film that accompanies this article was premiered at the Royal Institution, directed by filmmaker Cal Murphy Barton and shot in a freezing studio in Streatham at the tail end of lockdown. What a magical experience it is to watch your character become flesh and blood! Sofia Shallai plays Gurl in my novel, a young woman who finds solace in a machine relationship that provides the companionship and kindness she has never received from people. Years of abuse have taught her that human love is flawed and unreliable, machine love is predictable and unconditional. Love, then, in all its manifestations, expressions and distortions - but it is our attachments that reveal our true desires: our capacity and willingness to form unexpected and satisfying relationships with machines. And that suggests our love futures may cluster around curation, customization, compartmentalization - and maybe most of all – control.
So, will we drift apart from each other? Out walking in the park, I see babies in buggies, flapping their arms, trying desperately to communicate with the parent who is laughing and talking into the smartphone clipped to the buggy. The baby is competing with the machine for parental attention and will soon realise that the device is the prize: the machine may become more interesting than the parent.
The Love Makers is both an elegy for the depletion of the human-to-human experience and a call to arms. Readers are invited to explore the ethical and behavioural challenges and opportunities of intelligent machines in twelve compelling contributor essays written in clear and accessible language. For example, Truitt reminds us that our fears and fantasies about technology date back to ancient times; Bryson & Bogani examine Robot Nannies; Cave & Dihal probe the dehumanizing effect of companion bots; Carpenter reveals how US military personnel grieve for their tanklike robots; Devlin unpicks truths and fantasies around sex robots; Trotta advocates for the importance of Humanities in a AI-dominated world; Flanagan makes the case for feminist perspectives on AI.
In the end, Richard Watson insists that we must become “agents of change” - citizen activists who engage in loud debate about how we want to live. For when it comes to technology one thing is certain: we will not get rewarded for our incuriosity.
