The Presbyterian Church in Ireland tonight brought in new guidelines offering support for gays and lesbians.
Even though its theological opposition to homosexuality remains unchanged, the motion on pastoral care passed at its General Assembly in Belfast was a significant development.
After debating a report urging congregations to create an environment of love, acceptance, patience, forgiveness and grace, as well as develop a space where sexuality can be discussed, delegates backed the guidelines by 159-120.
The Rev Bobby Liddle, convenor of the panel which drew up the plans, told the conference: "For some this report goes too far, for others not far enough.
"There are no books or studies to turn to for statistics of same sex attraction in the Presbyterian Church in Ireland. The fear of disclosure itself prevents there being such statistics."
The minister of Legacurry Church near Lisburn, Co Antrim told how some are struggling with feelings and issues that could disrupt or destroy families, friendships, their church involvement and possibly even lives.
"We are far from the only church denomination wrestling with this issue that has far reaching implications," he added.
"And if this report is received and applied and if the application of it saves even one person from believing there is only one way out then surely it will have been worthwhile."
Earlier, new Presbyterian Moderator Dr John Finlay has stressed the Church's position that homosexuality is wrong. And he has declared practising gay men and women have little place within its fold. But Dr Finlay also emphasised that no-one should be ostracised over their orientation.
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