Sir, – Oh no, not another trendy therapy putdown – this time for “lovelies” – a strange new pejorative for people with helpful responses (Kate Holmquist, Magazine, March 23rd).
Now we’re supposed to snarl first or refer to our diaries . . . a bit hard on small children, little old ladies and others who need a hug, a lift, help with a lost cat, or a tax-form.
Yes, some people do too much – but it’s usually because others do too little. How about an equally trendy putdown for the snarling, skiving classes – those who are constitutionally deaf to all requests (don’t give directions, don’t do washing-up and don’t take responsibility).
If I had to choose, I’d prefer a world with fewer snarlies and more lovelies. Shouldn’t everyone take a turn at being a lovely – and have their five a day? – Yours, etc,
MAIRIDE WOODS,
Del Val Avenue, Dublin 13.