Madam, - We read last Saturday's feature on gay "marriages" by Kathy Sheridan with great interest.
On Tuesday 27th May last, I spoke with Marian Finucane on her RTE Morning Radio Show about my relationship with my boyfriend Jason.
The subject of formal recognition for gay partners is particularly close to us as Jason is a non national and living here illegally for the past 10 years. We have been with each other for 7 years so far.
The past year has being very difficult for me personally as I am constantly afraid that my partner might get caught by immigration officials as they continually round up people with non-regular details.
I have become confused and disturbed as continuous thoughts of potentially losing my other half. Neither of us could live apart. It would be unbearable.
Marriage is at the backbone of life for most straight couples. For us as a Catholic gay couple, we would not wish to infringe on this holy sacrament. However, all we ask for is some formal recognition for our relationship.
If we were a straight couple, my partner would automatically benefit from Irish citizenship following marriage. For us we live in fear every day of that knock on our door that could separate us forever!
What type of life is this for a couple in 2003? We live in hope that the powers that be will change our archaic laws to ensure equality for all. - Yours, etc.,
GARRY MALONE, Co Westmeath